“Thats just how I am” the polite way of telling someone they arent worth your effort for change. Who you are/how you act is basef on your habits and your influences. If you have a character flaw (which we all do) simply choose to improve it. Be a victor not a victim to your emotional cicumstance. 21days in a row to create a new habbit thatll make you a better version of you makes more sense then unhappy with a version youve settled for.you can make excuses or you can make effort….but only one of the two fixes the problem..love yall..be blessed..